The other side of the microphone

As a journalist, I make a living interviewing people. So it was somewhat surreal for me to be the interviewee rather than the interviewer on Saturday, June 27, 2015. It was my honor to interviewed by Michelle Raley, who hosts an international call every Saturday where she interviews some of the top leaders in Enagic Corp. There is a recording of our conversation and if I ever figure out how to attach it to a blog post, I’d be happy to share it. So stay tuned!

The bottom line is I was talking about the various things I do in my day-to-day life and how I keep things in balance (kind of goes well with the theme of this blog). Before the interview I wrote up bullet points to help me remember the things I wanted to note. Here’s some of the highlights…

  • How did we get involved in Enagic?
    • Enagic promotes true health – physical, mental and financial
    • We were struggling in all three areas  — our youngest child was a Make-A-Wish child at that time
  • My previous experience in sales
    • Direct sales – Tupperware
    • Network Marketing – TPN with Jeff Olson and Eric Worre
      • After TPN was sold I swore I would never get into another network marketing company again because I couldn’t imagine getting as passionate about anything else as I had been about personal development
  • Started in Enagic May of 2010
    • All I did was give away massive amounts of water, that’s all I knew to do
    • Never intended to do this as a business
    • How did I really start building?
      • Kept meeting people through my journalism business
      • Handed out my Enagic card — “I have a profession but changing lives one glass of water at a time through Kangen water is my mission”
    • Had no intention of being a leader but realized I needed to step up
      • As my confidence grew in the water I got more confident and my business grew
    • Now working Enagic full time and my other career in my spare time
      • Jobs
        • 6A1 distributor with Enagic Corp (check out KangenWisconsin.com)
        • Author of A World Such as Heaven Intended
        • Freelance journalist for The Business News and The Compass
        • Proofreader for a local college and other venues
        • Write product reviews for a national retail chain
        • Work in R&D for an international product development corp
        • Actress in local commercials
      • Volunteer work
        • Parish
        • Burundi Education Fund
    • “Think of only three things: your God, your family and the Green Bay Packers — in that order.” – Vince Lombardi
      • For me it’s God, my family and Enagic/Kangen Water
      • Build week starting with God
      • Schedule in the most important things
        • Church/prayer
        • Water consumption
        • Exercise
        • Personal Development
        • Family time
      • How do I do it all?
        • I don’t
          • Don’t cook (thanks to my amazing husband)
          • Don’t clean, mend, iron, garden (thanks to my wonderful mom)
      • Sometimes I get a sense of overwhelm
        • Just keep plowing ahead
        • Fight the biggest fires first
        • Plan out every day the night before
          • Prioritize everything on my list
          • Surround myself with pictures of our family to keep motivated
      • We all have superpowers
        • Mine is, I am willing to do what other people aren’t willing to do
      • What did I need to give up to achieve my goals?
        • Television
        • Newspapers (except positive ones like mine)
        • Sleep :o)

That’s it in a nutshell — my crazy, busy life (which could explain why there hasn’t been a blog post since March)! But, you know what? I wouldn’t trade my life with anyone! My faith, my husband, our children, our grandchildren, our businesses — everything is perfect for us. John and I have a mantra, “I’m lucky and blessed!” No matter what happens in my daily life, I truly feel that way. Hope you do too!

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My life is an open door

Lent is a busy time for a Catholic newspaper, all sorts of events to cover. So I’ve been to my share of retreats, conferences and talks over the last six weeks covering them for The Compass newspaper. It’s always a trick to record what is going on, get interviews done, take photos and yet still try to capture the essence of the event for myself. Many times it requires going home, writing the story, sending the story and pictures to my editor, and then sitting down to think about whatever gold nugget caught my attention during the event and pondering how I can implement that bit of wisdom into my life.

On March 14 I covered the Feminine Genius Conference held at St. Pius X Parish in Appleton. The speakers, including Rose Sullivan — executive director of the National Conference for Diocesan Vocation Directors and a USCCB consultant to the Committee on Clergy, Consecrated Life and Vocations, Father Mark Toups — pastor of Christ the Redeemer Catholic Church in Thibodaux, Louisiana, and who also works with the Institute for Priestly Formation,Teresa Tomeo — author, syndicated Catholic talk show host, and motivational speaker, and Sister Maris Stella of the Sisters of Life who works in the Hope and Healing Mission, a work providing retreats and accompaniment to women who are suffering after abortion, were all outstanding.

Here’s the interesting thing, the one thing that I heard that has stuck with me since that day wasn’t some profound line from one of the keynote speeches. In fact, it wasn’t from any speech at all. It was actually from a conversation I had with Fr. Mark Toups after he finished his presentation. I was able to catch him in the lobby as people were milling around, looking at the various vendor booths set up for the day. Father and I were having a conversation about our busy lives between working, traveling and doing presentations (the bulk of my traveling and presenting is for my mission of sharing Kangen water) and balancing everything we both have going on.

As we were concluding our conversation, Fr. Mark asked if he could pray for me. I never turn down the opportunity to be prayed over, so of course I said, “Absolutely!” He started out the prayer saying, “I pray that the Lord opens the doors that need to be opened in your life.”I was really touched by that because that is really something I’ve been praying for as well, he certainly could read what was on my heart. If the prayer would have concluded right there, I would have been at peace with that. However, it didn’t end there and his finishing request was actually something I really need (even though I won’t always admit it).

“And may the Lord close the doors that need to be closed in your life.”

Wow! I was speechless. Boy oh boy, did I need to hear that.

There are so many opportunities that I could take advantage of in my life, with more coming my way every day, and each one could be so wonderful in its own right to pursue but I cannot continue to spread myself so thin or I won’t be doing any opportunity justice. This is something I really need to ponder in my life so I can discern between all the doors open before me. It’s somewhat mind blowing, that’s for sure.

I can’t thank Fr. Mark enough for his prayer over me. I have thought about that every day since and really consider it as things continue to come my way. It’s causing me to narrow my focus so I can be better at the things that are my absolute priorities right now. I will continue to write newspaper articles (but keep that number down to one article per week), I will work harder and smarter sharing the message of living water, and I will complete the manuscript for the book I’m writing. Now I just have to work on saying no to some people and opportunities so I can say yes to the things that matter to me the most right now in my life. Easier said than done, but I’m determined to stay the course!

Happy Easter everyone!